The purpose of calling someone.

It is understood that when you call a person, it means that you want to ask that someone questions or maybe just talk. But little did that certain people understand that communication can also have certain barriers which blocks or filters a persons interpretation or understanding towards the message.

One example is telephone. Specifically handphone. Handphones can be very "pekak" at times whereby the connection can be really sucky if ur in certain places which are enclosed or maybe the place ur in is just not anywhere to be connected easily. Anyway my point is, if u call a person to talk or to ask questions, it means that you should say, "eh i cant hear you) or (eh are you there?) if u can't hear that person replying you. Yes it may be due to emotion factors example crying or just feeling down or something. But the stupidest thing someone would ever do is to assume that person is actually not answering you but the fact is she did.

You are smart and intelligent academically, but why is it that your so emotinally disturbed all the time? Assuming what others might think can be very unhealthy at times. If you are assuming something, and that assumtion was wrong, it is ur own risk of making the relationship/friendship/situation or whatever get tension or make urself feel down and stressed up.

So I would like to conclude this post by saying, never assume if you do not have real cues. But cues can also be misinterpreted. So, the best thing is to assume only is the case is beneficial. If you assume about something that could create a conflict for example hard feelings or anything, it'll be pointless. You'll get depressed over nuts. And always understand and remember that, there is such thing as interpersonal communication barriers.


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